Do not stare angrily at the wall, fuming. It is not the wall’s fault that you are there. Use the time to reflect on the transgression that landed you there, and how to correct it so as not to offend again. If it was not a transgression, but rather His pleasure, then smile contentedly at the wall and be glad He is pleased.
Just because you consider yourself dominant, doesn’t mean you can’t laugh at something funny she says or does.
Being dominant doesn’t mean you have to be serious all the time.
Truth!
Just because someone tells you they don’t need a safeword, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t clarify what the safeword for the scene is … just in case.
Accidents happen, even in the hands of the most experienced Dominants. Safewords are crucial to preventing a trip to the hospital or worse.
Always have a safeword, even with a long-term partner that you trust implicitly. No scene is perfect. Accidents do happen.
Allowing your submissive girl to shave you (wherever) can be a very intimate act.
Teach her roughly how you like to be shaved and let her figure out the best way to do it. The emotional connection that comes from the simple act of shaving will help you bond even closer.
I love the idea of shaving my man!
An excellent way to establish your dominance in any situation is by taking your submissive girl’s chin gently but firmly between your index finger and thumb and maintaining stern eye contact while addressing her.
If she looks away, firmly tell her “look at me.” Don’t shout - you might frighten her.
You’ll always drive home your point with the chin grab.
Yes!
YES PLEASE!!!
Third on this.
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Does it count that I have tattoos and I’m drinking coffee right now? Does that make me a craving? (Oh hush up ya old fart …. your ain’t what they crave).
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